Callow or Mature ?

Who saves what? People always talk about being callow and being mature but I never really got it. Sometimes it was about suppressing what you actually feel and what you really want to say, the kinds who have achieved this are called mature. They know when to shut up and turn around. They do all this for the bigger good. I still don’t see where this ‘good’ is even though it is supposed to be visualized as an elephant. They say even a child can blurt out the truth but it takes a man of manner to keep the laces tight. Then why children are happier? Carefree to the world and even make better friends because they don’t suppress anything.

Is it a lifelong punishment to pretend or maturity is about being bind to the rules of dharma? Does taking the path of callowness an easy choice and if it’s comfortable to speak your mind is it a sin? Or is it that some people do what they like and some people make the sacrifices and hence the world is balanced because if we all sacrificed who will be gratified from the sacrifices and if we all went blunt who will bring the order?

This thought came to my mind thinking of our usual Hindi films climax when two friends /brothers fell in love with the same girl or vice versa and both of them now get themselves confused in the cycle of maturity and immaturity and completely forgetting about their love interest (what she/he wants nobody cares that time). Both get in the fight to stand on the higher moral grounds.

I think it is blasphemous to ponder about the love triangle because each vertices is more concerned about their own Karma …love takes the back seat.

PS : Playing each role has its own pleasures :)